Sunday, July 20, 2008

My Top 5 Strengths

WOO

Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Woo theme love the challenge of meeting new people and
winning them over. They derive satisfaction from breaking the ice and making a connection with
another person.

Your Personalized Strengths Insights

What makes you stand out?
Instinctively, you regale people with illuminating accounts of incidents in your life. You entertain them
with your tales. You candidly share your personal observations and experiences. As a result,
individuals are apt to draw lessons and insights from your amusing stories. Because of your
strengths, you sometimes infuse energy into members of your team. Perhaps you enjoy life more
than some people do. Why? You might choose to concentrate on what is good rather than on what is
bad. It’s very likely that you typically are described as a "what you see is what you get" person. There
is very little mystery about who you are. You usually make a point of talking with strangers. You are
apt to tell them about yourself without their having to ask you any questions. Your forthright approach
encourages many individuals to be as open with you as you are with them. Driven by your talents,
you may feel the absence of your friends more deeply than some people do. Perhaps you long for the
emotional support these individuals provide when miles separate you or circumstances make
communication impossible. Chances are good that you enjoy initiating dialogue with newcomers or
outsiders. The possibility that they one day will become your devoted admirers, dedicated followers,
or dear friends probably inspires you to be especially friendly.

COMMUNICATION

Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Communication theme generally find it easy to put their
thoughts into words. They are good conversationalists and presenters.

Your Personalized Strengths Insights

What makes you stand out?
Because of your strengths, you may possess enough strength in language to express your ideas and
feelings with ease. Maybe you rely on words and phrases your teammates can readily understand. By
nature, you live your life at center stage. It is risky at times. However, it is the only way you will ever
know how much people appreciate and love you. Being a person of prominence and achievement
comes naturally to you. You easily capture the attention of others. You sense that you are most alive
when you hear thunderous applause or receive accolades from those who realize you are important.
Chances are good that you spontaneously regale people with funny anecdotes, timely jokes, witty
comments, or whimsical ideas. Amusing others brings you pleasure. You have a gift for making
people laugh out loud. Driven by your talents, you very much enjoy the animated give-and-take of a
lively discussion. It’s very likely that you occasionally marvel at your ability to vividly express your
thoughts and feelings.

IDEATION

Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Ideation theme are fascinated by ideas. They are able to
find connections between seemingly disparate phenomena.

Your Personalized Strengths Insights

What makes you stand out?
Because of your strengths, you contribute many innovative ideas to the group during brainstorming
sessions. You tend to be highly imaginative when proposals are fully heard and any criticism is
reserved for a later time. Driven by your talents, you recharge your mind by creating ideas for new
projects. This occurs even before you have completed your current assignment. You are happiest
when you can hand off your unfinished work to others. You are like a surgeon who performs the
operation but asks a competent assistant close the patient's incision. You have ways of freeing
yourself to think about your next project. Instinctively, you typically generate inventive ideas for new
projects, especially those that require upgrading things. When you are challenged to be an innovative
thinker, you feel valued. By nature, you often are the originator of fresh ideas for brand-new
campaigns, business ventures, initiatives, or special events. It’s very likely that you are an original
and innovative thinker. Others frequently rely on you to generate novel concepts, theories, plans, or
solutions. You refuse to be stifled by traditions or trapped by routines. You probably bristle when
someone says, "We can't change that. We've always done it this way."

EMPATHY

Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Empathy theme can sense the feelings of other people by
imagining themselves in others' lives or others' situations.

Your Personalized Strengths Insights

What makes you stand out?
Because of your strengths, you may feel honored when specific individuals trust you enough to share
their innermost thoughts and feelings. Perhaps you understand that the act of listening is both helpful
and healing. Driven by your talents, you are a gifted raconteur -- that is, a fine storyteller. You notice
your audience's mood the moment you walk into the room. This ability allows you to accurately
interpret the feelings of your story's characters. Armed with these insights, you anticipate exactly
when your listeners will laugh out loud, chuckle quietly to themselves, gasp in disbelief, nod in
agreement, or shed a tear. Chances are good that you might demonstrate how you value certain
teammates and care about them as individuals. How? Maybe you listen to them talk about their
talents, successes, or aspirations. Some of the insights you collect may prepare you to provide them
with opportunities to grow personally or professionally. Instinctively, you bring a keen awareness
about human behavior to the classroom, laboratory, seminar, playing field, or tutoring session. You
spontaneously tune in to what individuals are thinking and feeling minute by minute. These insights
are likely to make you a better educator. By nature, you may be pleased when teammates trust you
enough to tell you about their ambitions, doubts, suggestions, worries, plans, concerns, or questions.

POSITIVITY

Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Positivity theme have an enthusiasm that is contagious.
They are upbeat and can get others excited about what they are going to do.

Your Personalized Strengths Insights

What makes you stand out?
Driven by your talents, you periodically interject a bit of fun, energy, or lightheartedness into team
activities. You may enjoy transforming an individual's or a group's mood from sad to happy. Perhaps
you remind people that life is too short to waste time being bored, angry, upset, frustrated, or
miserable. By nature, you naturally sense when a person can benefit from your support, kind words,
or thoughtful deeds. Perhaps you have an ability to lift certain people's sagging spirits by what you do
or say. In the process, you might enhance some individuals' self-confidence enough that they dare to
acquire knowledge, gain new skills, or broaden their experiences. Chances are good that you may be
motivated to vie against people for the top award or the best score. Winning sometimes makes you
eager to repeatedly test your knowledge, skills, or talents. Perhaps knowing that scores, ratings, or
rankings are being tallied keeps you interested in selected activities. If these measurements are
missing, you might struggle to stay fully interested. Instinctively, you periodically inspire people by
finding out what motivates them. You may give individuals lots of recognition. Once in a while, you
celebrate each person's uniqueness. Perhaps your acknowledgments or compliments energize
particular people. It’s very likely that you occasionally inspire people to try new things or adopt a more
upbeat outlook on life. Perhaps your words and/or your attentiveness bolster the self-esteem of
others.

Friday, December 01, 2006




Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Monday, April 25, 2005

White as a Snowflake Upon the Dirty Ground

I want to write so much on here.. but I now realize that I need to have more people who would benefit from it to read this. When they do get here though I hope they take the time to read all this. I am working on a poem to express a thought I had yesterday.....

Snowflakes falling
Intertwined
Upon the dirty ground
Purity it slips away
but not without a sound

The sound of fear
and consequence
And hopes that fade away
Call out for all to guard them selves
and treasure purity today

Yet snowflakes still fall
intertwined
Upon the dirty ground
Ignoring but still feeling
Puritys lost sound


I am still working on it. But let me just tell you where I'm going. Purity is so precious yet we are so eager to give it up. We day dream of "love" and because of people these days we have begun to view "love" connected mainly by physical attraction and action. It's such a lie. But it's so hard especially for us girls who feel like it may be the only way to make a guy like us. We are raised by TV. Even children's stories of princes who wake princesses with true loves kiss. Its a nice thought but how can someone truly love you when they just see you laying there dead.. not knowing what you love to do, how you smile, what your favorite song is,and What it is that makes you cry. If they have never spent the time to cheer you up and listen to your problems. True love is learned. Not a moment.. but I am getting carried away with myself.
I have grown up in church and had it hammered into my brain over and over again about guarding myself.. but I became numb to the message. It meant nothing and so I treated it like nothing. I dreamed of meeting a good looking guy kissing him passionately and proving my love to him....but my dream was really messed up. But because of my dream I felt the need to make guys happy through physical action. It was the only way they could truly love me I thought. And this poem is about what is going on while it is all happening.
Snowflakes are white and beautiful each unique and special. Like us. But when we start to give ourselves away, we are like a falling snowflake falling closer to the ground. As it is all happening your mind is racing it is thinking of everything those words of protecting your self and how precious your purity are there. But you push them out of your mind. Ignoring all the warning signs your mind is telling you and you dive head first into the dirt. Ruining the beauty you had. And let me tell you. It isn't worth it. The guilt and worry that follows in the days months and years after is not worth the chance to experience a true love with one person you know will stay with you forever and has taken the vows to prove it. A guilt free expression of love through actions....Its priceless and something I am looking forward to.
And I know you have heard it before but when you give that part of you away to each person, you will carry a part of them with you into your marriage and your life. When you kiss your spouse you will remember them when you are making love you will remember the other times... your love is tainted. You have a chance to experience something so great that I will never have. So I call out to you to realize this and truly treasure what you have. Be in no rush to kiss that boy or girl.. Because when I talk of purity I am not only talking sex I am talking everything around it. This doesn't mean don't kiss till your married just guard your self a little more. Don't rush into anything. And draw lines. Remember those voices in your head that make us nervous scared or worried are warning us about something. Listen to them. See what they are saying.
Stay pure and remember the choices you make can effect others.

Saturday, April 02, 2005

Why I'm here

No one sits with him, he doesn’t fit in
But we feel like we do when we make fun of him
Cause you want to belong do you go along
Cause his pain is the price paid for you to belong
It’s not like we hate him or want him to die
But maybe he goes home and thinks suicide
Or he comes back to school with a gun at his side
And a kindness from you might have saved his life

Heroes are made when you make a choice
You could be a hero
Heroes do what’s right
You could be a hero
You might save a life
You could be a hero, You could join the fight
For what’s right for what’s right for what’s right

No one talks to her, she feels so alone
She’s in too much pain to survive on her own
The hurt she can’t handle overflows to a knife
She writes on her arm, wants to give up her life
Each day she goes on is a day that she is brave,
Fighting the lie that giving up is the way,
Each moment of courage her own life she saves
When she throws out the pills a hero is made

No one talks to him about how he lives
He thinks that the choices he makes are just his
Doesn’t know he’s a leader with the way he behaves
And others will follow the choices he’s made
He lives on the edge, he’s old enough to decide
His brother who wants to be him is just nine
He can do what he wants because it’s his right
The choices he makes change a nine year old’s life


I've been talking a lot with someone online and they have told me to think about my dreams. I want to impact the world and better the world I am in now. This song came on one day when I was thinking about what I should be doing....I have an impact on many peoples lives just by the choices I make. What I do isn't just effecting me but it effects everyone around me.

I've never been good at spelling, or math or school at all. But I have a big heart that just want to love the world. As you know the world is cold though and hardly ever loves you back.

This space is where I'll write my thoughts and hopes and dreams for you. Everyone has been through so much in their lives. You can feel so alone. But your not. There are people out there to help you and if you'll let me I would like to be there for you. You can e-mail me or comment on my page with questions. Tell your friends who may need to hear some of this.

Before I go. Remember you are important and wonderful. EVERYONE IS.. So treat them and yourselves accordingly.